So how do you deal with the past hurts?  How do you get them to play fair?  I’ve heard that you must come to peace with it. How?  How do you do that?  When they resurface, all I want to do is run?  I get that what I took on was perhaps not something meant for my harm, maybe?  The reasoning doesn’t matter at this point……I was hurt and my heart still does.  So how do you make nice with that?  That’s where I’m stuck?  I know I should give it to God and I’m trying, even though Yoda’s words echo….do or do not, there is not try.  Yeah, ain’t that the truth.